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This Too Will Pass.

Social isolation has sort of felt like a break-up - a sensation that, after nearly 20 years with my husband, returns to me like a hazy, rotten memory. Oh, this, I think, as I pull myself out of bed, forgetting what day it is, and mash an OREO into my maw. I remember this. It

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40 Things For His 40th Birthday

My husband turned 40 at the beginning of July. I wanted a Bacchanalian celebration, cake and lights and streamers and swarms of people, forgetting entirely that this milestone wasn‘t about me. The realization would hit me eventually, before too much planning had occurred: he didn‘t want a big to-do. Nor did he want, he insisted,

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Anti-Valentine‘s Day And Ugghhh We‘re Cute

People are always surprised when I tell them Rand and I don‘t really celebrate Valentine‘s Day. I mean, we used to. But dear lord, it was always so, so much, and it always felt a little weird and uncomfortable and forced, even if it lead to some of my favorite photos, ever:

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Why Aren‘t You Blogging, and Other Hard Questions

Every now and then I get a well-meaning email or Facebook message from a reader. I‘ve noticed,they will write, and I can practically feel the gentle trepidation as they do so,that you seem to have fallen off the planet and are living the life of a hermit. And not even a *good* hermit? Like, you

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Are Men Abused Online More Than Women?

(TW: this post discusses online abuse and includes screencaps and discussion of graphic, misogynistic, homophobic, and generally just horrifying language.) I‘ve been studying online harassment for a while now. I find myself a case study more often than I would like, and when I present on the topic, my slides are often screencaps of abusive

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I Write About Mice But Actually Anxiety.

It‘s funny, the things that finally set you off. Like, I‘ve always presumed that I was a relatively hinged person, but here I am, utterly unhinged. For some of you, this will be unsurprising. Some of you will be thinking, Geraldine, YOU WERE NEVER HINGED. YOU HAVE FEWER HINGES THAN A SLIDING DOOR. And I

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I Tried Making Mike Bloomberg‘s Meatball Recipe and It Doesn‘t Make Sense

Harvey Weinstein was found guilty today on some (but not all) of the charges brought against him by the state of New York. And I find this unbelievable, not because I believed in his innocence in any measure, but because I believe in the ability - as old as history and time itself - of

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A Seattle Germaphobe in the Time of Coronavirus

My city feels strangely still right now. I normally hear the sounds from the elementary school nearby, or people walking their dogs, the swish of cars driving by on the street. But it‘s oddly quiet at the moment, the only sound the squawking from a few irritable crows whose life mission is to make sure

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Happy 10th Anniversary To This Weird Blog

Ten years. It‘s been ten years since I started this blog. Ten years since Rand accidentally named this site because he misheard me when I suggested The Everywhere List. Ten years since we registered the domain. A decade of writing posts - some good, some utterly embarrassing, some very, very outdated. The wormhole created by

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My Memoir is Out in Paperback Today.

It has been two years since my memoir came out, and the reality of that dream coming true has both sunk in and managed to become surreal. Sometimes, I need a reminder that it all actually happened. And then someone will mention it to me, or email me to tell me that they just finished

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Between Two Knees at The OSF

Above photo: Between Two Knees (2019): Wotko Long, Rachel Crowl, April Ortiz, Derek Garza, Shaun Taylor-Corbett. Photo by Jenny Graham. Minutes before the curtain rose on the night we saw Between Two Knees, my husband Rand received a text from our friend Shaun, who is in the show. Sorry in advance, Shaun wrote,

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